Embrace the unknown—don’t let fear smother your flame
Admin l Saturday, February 29, 2020
ISTANBUL, Turkey – Abiri Oluwabusayomi better known as Khloe in the Big Brother reality show (2018) is obviously having a blast. This dark and lovely girl who seems to be obsessed with her natural black skin has been flying from one city to the other, having the best of fun.
Recall, this Big Brother star was in Dubai, UAE and the Maldives, where she succeeded in showcasing some of the best destinations, including hotels. She is on the road again. This time in Turkey. This lovely lady who has dubbed herself as the work of art would have made the top list in the days of Mnet Face of Africa.
Nevertheless, Khloe has continued to live her dream and she believes all is not lost, telling all those out there who think otherwise that they can change their story anytime. But one thing she thinks would make that happen is not being afraid to take risks.
As she puts it, “don’t overthink everything. Take risks. Don’t compare yourself to others. Their life is not your life, and you don’t want it to be. Be true to yourself and your own experience. Be aware of who and what influences you. Don’t conform to ideals that aren’t important to you.Focus”, she said.
Besides, the Big Brother star is urging you to embrace the unknown and not allow fear smother your flame.
” Stop waiting for what’s next. Spend less time thinking and planning, and more time doing and feeling. Stop doubting yourself. Stop second guessing. Just act. Don’t overthink everything. Take risks. Don’t compare yourself to others. Their life is not your life, and you don’t want it to be. Be true to yourself and your own experience. Be aware of who and what influences you. Don’t conform to ideals that aren’t important to you.
“Focus. Accept that you cannot do everything. Sacrifice what you can let go of so you can achieve what you truly want. Don’t be afraid to change, to start over—it’s never too late. You have the power to get rid of what doesn’t fit you anymore, to tear it down and to build it back up again. You are in charge. You can change your story at any time, it’s your story after all. You decide.
“You don’t want to wake up when you’re eighty and have regrets. Hell, you don’t want to wake up tomorrow and have regrets. Fear is unavoidable, but work through it. Embrace the unknown—don’t let fear smother your flame. Most people don’t know what they’re doing, and that’s okay. Just don’t stop growing. Let the true you, the flawed, the messy, the excitable, the uncomfortable, the inner and outer you, spread like wildfire.
“Don’t get caught up in the superficial. It’s not worth one second of your time. Don’t sweat the small stuff, and most of it is small stuff. Don’t dwell. It will weigh you down and stand in the way of you experiencing the life you deserve.
It will stand in your way of making memories that will warm and fill you up from the inside. Don’t take anything or anyone for granted. Make sure the ones you hold dear know how much they mean to you. Be kind. Give where and when you can. Smile, or don’t. Really, just do you. Speak your mind. You’re allowed to say no.
“Don’t spend time on things that aren’t adding value to your life. Don’t settle. You are not mediocre, so don’t live like you are. Take time to play. Be thankful. Pray often. Listen. Make out more. Laugh. Make love more. Be kind to yourself. Take self-interest—do something for you everyday. It’s not selfish, it’s vital—it’s your life”, Khloe said.
