Victoria Inyama’s sex questions spark row among women

LAGOS, Nigeria – Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama is a young actress but she will conveniently wear the toga of a veteran actress in Nollywood. 

She has seen it all. It was therefore not surprising  when the question she raised about sex generated serious row among likeable ladies on the social media.

Victoria Inyama who seems to be speaking based on her personal experience inquired, after making a sweeping statement.

“How we have turned into a heartless generation 😔 Women….How do U enjoy sex with him then tell your children ‘God bless U?.How?

“How much are you worth?  When another woman is in tears? A woman is d birther(breather) of life …..and death too…….

“Every thing we do has consequences…Every thing… Always remember that…. Ķá Çhìńèķè méżìè óķwù Good morning 😔😔😔”, she said.

Victoria Inyama who was looking very bitter from the expression on her face as she spoke would wish women who have found solace in husband snatching would read her emotional outburst. 

First to reply was Kemi Olunloyo, who has styled herself as the only investigative journalist in Nigeria. 

“God bless you my dear @victoriainyama . I will do a video post today of the same thing and what my pastor said”, she noted.  Another Nollywood star, Monalisa Chinda, captured it this way, prof Vicky has DROPPED LA BOMBSHELL”. 

Mayo Lawal  said, “Uuuum …. Sis my question is why do we always blame the women ? When my boyfriend steps out , I don’t blame the other girl , I blame him …she didn’t make the commitment to me naaaa .. the other day I did I a just water diet , I know how hard it was for me (people drinking all sorts around me every time ) but I made the commitment not them na”, she said.

But Victoria Victor  said every story has both sides. 

“Most homes are already broken before the third party. But we’re not sincere enough to tell ourselves the truth. I am a woman and I’ve suffered this hurt. But let’s tell ourselves the truth most times we women send our men outside. I’ve reached an age where I’ll speak nothing but the truth. 

“Living under the same roof with a man who you have been emotionally unattached doesn’t mean you’re married. Check the children born into such homes, they’re the problem we are facing today because they’re broken. 

“Especially if both parents pretend to be Christians. I have a lot to say on this matter very soon I’ll have the platform to address this. Do we even know that the majority from statistics of these side chics are married women? I’ll rest my case here”, she said. But Queen Susz has every reason to thank Victoria Inyama for the post. 

“I love your guts. I used to support feminism until I discovered that the majority of these Nigerian women who are feminists are baby mamas to married men and they hate women who are happily married! Thanks for speaking the truth”, she said. 

But Suweku Jennifer described the situation as so funny. “Is so funny how ladies preach women supporting women yet they date other women’s husbands. Is that part of being supportive?What a crazy world! 

“Just remain good no matter what”, she said but Cindy simply smiled from  the corner of her mouth. “I smile from the corner of my mouth😠. They destroy homes and still have the conscience to pray and call on God’s name”, she exclaimed. 

For Chy Flexxy,  the situation is nothing but indicative of endtime. 

“End time , one man goes to gather many woman , is shameful and sad really , the heartless ones even go as far as threatening the wife after snatching”, but Doris Ogala  in her honest assessment said this generation is heartless and shameless.

Hanny Darl thanks Victoria Inyama  for that emotional outburst, adding ” a lot of these slay queens are guilty of this, may God have mercy on them”, she prayed. 

But Oluwa Teekeyz said,  “You are Intelligent and beautiful 👌👌, I swear to God I was thinking the same thing early this morning. Why some women are happy destructing(destroying) others”. 

Illustrative Victor’s comment was rather revealing. ” I was married to a man whose father had more than 10 wives, I later found that out so nothing I did was enough, he’s is both generational & genetic, he was just insatiable because he grew up in that setting doe his mom is d 1st wife……..2nd…….

“Marriages are now entered into for d wrong reasons, not love….it’s now more of money & comfort……. ..3rd…..We all really do not know what marriage is……if we did, like Apostle Paul, A lot of people will NOT get married, especially d men”, she said but Wabara_Pr said  things happen when women are desperate to have their ways.

“When a women is in a desperate phase to have a man ,they either 1.Don’t asked the pre screening questions to ascertain if his proclaimed status is actually true or 2.Their instinct tells them that the man is not single and see the warning signal s/ red flags but they still choose to proceed”, she said.