Why I don’t rush into relationships – RMD
Admin l Monday, July 29, 2019
LAGOS, Nigeria – Nollywood legend, Richard Mofe Damijo(RMD) has opened up on why he is does not rush into relationships. The actor cum filmmaker said he often gets requires from people who want to have a relationship with in different capacities.
He said he usually does not take such request lightly hence he is not quick to jump into mentoring, fathering or being a big brother figure.
He said he has been a victim of relationship abuse, which he explains has to do with situations where people take their unlimited access to you for granted forgetting that-RELATIONSHIP IS A CURRENCY.
According to him, relationships irrespective of what type have the power to serve as a capital. “There are relationships that give you leverage, some people have gotten ahead in life because of who they married, who they work/ed with/for”, he said.
Explaining further, he said, one respected persons endorsement could do more than financial capital can. “So it is important not to enter into relationships with the intent of giving nothing in return, there’s no way that would work, you must be willing to service whatever relationships you have.
“Be skilful in relationship building by being selfless, unassuming and not feeling self entitled. Respect boundaries, don’t be a user, be humble, accountable and have integrity”, he said, besides, he is of the view that you must have respect, more for yourself than the one you latch on to because it is self respect that restrains you from behaving in ways that put you in bad light.
