Admin l Friday, May 25, 2018
INCEST: MY FATHER HAD SEX WITH ME FOR 4 YEARS, LADY TELLS COURT
IKEJA, Lagos, Nigeria – An 18-year old victim of sexual abuse has told a Special and sexual Offences Court, sitting in Ikeja Lagos how her biological father, Folorunsho Oluwaseun was having sexual intercourse with her for four years. The victim simply identified as Iyanu is the first prosecution witness in an ongoing trial involving her father and the state of Lagos before Justice Sybil Nwaka.
While being led in evidence by the prosecuting counsel, Babajide Boye, Iyanu told the court that the father started abusing her sexually right from when she was 12-years old while they lived alone with him in their Ikorodu home in Lagos.
“I was staying with my father with my four other siblings, (two boys and two boys) in a room apartment”. She said the abuse started when her father called her and said that her breast is not as big as that of her mates and that he would help her suck it with his mouth so that it can get bigger like that of her mates.
“I was in JSS 3 when he started. He asked me to sleep with him on the bed and he began to suck my breasts
The following day, I told my younger sister about the incident and she condemned it. The following week, he told me that I am not as fat as my mates and that he help pour sperm inside me so that I can be as fat as my peers. I allowed him have sex with me and thereafter, he gave me salt water to drink”.
The victim further told the court that her mother left her father’s house in year 2012 as the duo were always having misunderstanding. She said her father continue to abuse her sexually and when she told her younger sister about the sexual aspect, she said it is a curse and the bible condemns it.
“I said same to my dad but he said it is not a curse because God knows that he does not have a wife. attempted to stop him but he denied me and my siblings food for days until I Gave in again. He said if he he continue to have sex with me, he will keep a getting money to take care of us.
“My mum came but left again after about a month. He stopped when she was around and started again when she left. I didn’t tell my mum because he said I should not tell her. We usually go to the Apostolic church camp every year and he told me that his sister reported him to his mum and rather than rebuking him, she told him not to get me pregnant. I told my sister and she said my dad family don’t like us at all” In 2016, my mother came back to stay with us, she caught us one night when my father was trying to have sex with me.
She screamed and my father threatened to kill her.
Iyanu also informed the court that thereafter her mother took her and her siblings to Ibadan where she was formerly residing.
“I was teaching in a small school in ibadan and we used to call him to send us money but he will say until we come back to ikorodu and I didn’t want to go back so I went to the proprietress of the school I teach at in ibadan asking for salary increment that the money is too small for all of us to live on and she asked of my dad and I told her everything I went through in the hands of my father. She said she knows someone who can help me at justice development peace commission at basorun ibadan. I told them all that happened and they said they will help me but I have to come to lagos and they gave us a number to call at alausa ikeja”
” She directed me to Justice Development Peace Commission in Ibadan but we were referred to Alausa Ikeja and I was asked to report at the police station. Iwas referred to Miracle center to run a test. After the test, we went back to the police station and we later went to arrest my father in Ikorodu.
While being cross-examined by the defence counsel, Woreer Oduagbaka, the victim maintained that she was living in a room apartment but a room was later added to it , making a room and parlour.
The victim’s mother also gave her evidence before the court, giving her reasons for leaving her husband in the first place saying he accused her of spiritual impending his progress and she had no choice but to leave his house for Ibadan where she began selling food stuffs and sending her sister to give her children gifts occasionally because their father would not let her contact them directly.
She also told the court that she was unawares of everything that happened to her daughter as she never confided in her until she caught the father in the act and left with her kids after he refused to accept or show any form of repentance for his act before he ‘killed her’ in a bid to cover up the secret. The 52 -year -old defendant Folorunso Oluwaseun was arraigned for defiling a minor in February 2018 on a 2 count charge bordering on sexual assault. Justice Nwaka adjourned the matter till June 21, 2018 for continuation of trial.